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Relationship Load

by : Dr. Lagrotte

Couples

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What’s Relationship Load? I read a really good article the other day about how much we take on in our lives and how it can overload us to the point where we can’t do simple tasks.  Why do we do this to ourselves?  I think the need for “underloading” has come and I think there’s…
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Compatibility 101

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CouplesGottman MethodParenting

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Compatibility Hello everyone! Because of my flexible schedule of working evenings and weekends, I get the chance to volunteer for my girls classes. I do art projects once a month and as the school year dwindles down, they’re coming to an end

Choices, choices and more choices

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FamilyParenting

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Life is Full of Choices Ok, life is full of choices and it’s very confusing what choices you should make on a day to day basis. What if I told you that you make so many choices a day and that the ones you are making are the right ones! Hooray right? Well, they might…
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How Do You Say You’re Sorry?

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How Do You Say You’re Sorry? I’m blessed to have 2 elementary age children who are at school for 6 hours a day. I can get stuff done, exercise and of course, work on my business.  When my children walk through the door, my world shifts and I don’t always know what I’m getting myself…
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Let’s Talk About Emotions!

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Let’s Talk Emotions I am a Gottman couples’ therapist and I love working with couples. I get to see the transition from hurt, angry, distant to loving, intimate and enjoying each other. Understanding your emotions is not easy, but yes, it is possible.

How Do You Focus on the Big Picture?

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CouplesGottman MethodTherapy

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So, how did you two first meet? When couples come to me for the first time, as we get started I ask them, “So, how did you two first meet?”  This is met by a few different reactions. They do tell me but then they go straight into problem talk.  How do we focus on…
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Professionals United for Parkland (PU4P)

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FamilyTherapy

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I’m so excited to be a part of the the Professionals United for Parkland (PU4P). I had the pleasure of doing an interview (see below) about our work and what we’ve been up to and I haven’t written about it personally yet and, as I said in the interview, it is very personal to me.

How do you check in with your partner?

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CouplesFamily

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Hi, it’s Spring Break over here and I’m writing for the first time in a long time. As most of you know, our town of Parkland has had an enormous tragedy and we all all trying to do the best we can with finding our way through this and everything else. So I mentioned it’s…
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Make Some Couples Time

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CouplesFamilyParenting

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Yes, you can make couples time Have you ever heard the phrase, “You know you have children when having a 5 minute conversation takes all day.”  This is a joke of course, but is it?  We spend so much time on our children and what time we have left we spend on what?  Umm, that’s…
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How Do You Know if Your Partner is Supportive?

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CouplesTherapy

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It’s Tough If anyone is wondering, yes, it’s extremely hard to be married or in a relationship with a therapist, especially a therapist that specializes in couples. Why, you ask? Well, if you can’t fix your own relationship, how can you fix others?  At least that’s how I view it.  I tell my clients all…
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