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Staying Calm

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LifestyleStress

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July 27, 2017

I have always imagined myself as a calm person and I strive to live that way. I have had two incidents lately that have questioned how I can stay calm when other people are so upset? I am struggling with this because I do believe that staying calm, listening to my inner voice and going…
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End of Summer and the Empty Nest

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CouplesEmpty NestTherapy

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July 26, 2017

I’ve had a nice relaxing summer so far. My two children are enjoying camp and I am enjoying them at camp! My youngest is starting kindergarten in the fall and I always said that I was so excited to get to this point in my life. Oh, all the things I can do with them…
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Teaching and learning how to be disappointed

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Parenting

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July 15, 2015

Okay, this is a very personal blog but that is what this is for to talk, learn and to listen.  I had the pleasure of learning so many lessons this morning dropping my children off at camp that it had to be remembered and shared to experience life as it comes. My children love “mommy…
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Ignorance is for those that do not ask questions

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Lifestyle

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June 19, 2015

I was talking to a friend about another friend’s son who just found out he has Type 1 diabetes. As a mother, friend and person my heart went out to this family but that as far as it could go because I do not know the day-to-day trials about how to teach a 5-year-old how…
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Can Relationship Counseling Work with Just One Person?

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Couples

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June 7, 2015

I cannot tell you how many times, I either get a call or see someone in person and the first thing they say to me is, “I have wanted to come for awhile but my partner would not come so I got tired of waiting and came myself.”  My answer is always, good for you…
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The 5 1/2 hour a week fix to your relationship!

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CouplesGottman Method

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June 2, 2015

How much time do you think you should spend on your relationship each week? The Gottman Method for Couple’s therapy has come up with a concept called The Magic Five and One-half Hours a Week. What does this mean to you and me as people in relationships with busy lives and work, children and external…
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Relationship Styles: Which one are you?

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Couples

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Relationship Styles Okay, we have all heard the term “opposites attract” and when they do, conflict arises because you have two people that look at life/relationship styles. Let’s learn a bit about the different relationship styles and find out which one fits best for you! Conflict-Avoider Style: Generally prefers little disagreement. If there is a…
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Gottman Couple’s Method Rituals in Relationships

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May 26, 2015

To learn a bit more about the Gottman Method and what it means, I want to share an exercise that I thought was helpful to include in my own relationship. When we think of rituals, at least when I thought of rituals, I thought it meant holidays, birthdays, etc. Never did I even think about…
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