Gottman Method
Workin’ for a livin’
Hope you’re well. We’re quickly approaching summer! Not sure about you, but it’s been super busy around here and I’m looking forward to the slower pace over the summer. We’ve had a lot of travel for work lately. My husband has had 3 business trips in the last 2 months and yes, I went to…
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Who are you talking to?
YES! You can successfully work through an affair.
Priorities, Priorities and More Priorities
Who’s busy today? It’s Tuesday, not Monday, but it seems as each day of the week is busier than the next. I know that for me, the weekdays are easier than the weekends because there’s a better schedule for me, but still, craziness at all levels. So how do you find time to have…
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Top 5 Reasons People Cheat
What do you think the number #1 infidelity reason is? Do you think it’s sex addiction? If you do, you’re wrong.
Compatibility 101
Compatibility Hello everyone! Because of my flexible schedule of working evenings and weekends, I get the chance to volunteer for my girls classes. I do art projects once a month and as the school year dwindles down, they’re coming to an end
How Do You Say You’re Sorry?
How Do You Say You’re Sorry? I’m blessed to have 2 elementary age children who are at school for 6 hours a day. I can get stuff done, exercise and of course, work on my business. When my children walk through the door, my world shifts and I don’t always know what I’m getting myself…
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Let’s Talk About Emotions!
Let’s Talk Emotions I am a Gottman couples’ therapist and I love working with couples. I get to see the transition from hurt, angry, distant to loving, intimate and enjoying each other. Understanding your emotions is not easy, but yes, it is possible.
How Do You Focus on the Big Picture?
So, how did you two first meet? When couples come to me for the first time, as we get started I ask them, “So, how did you two first meet?” This is met by a few different reactions. They do tell me but then they go straight into problem talk. How do we focus on…
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Do you want to start your Second Marriage?
Typically, people only reach out for help when things are really bad. I would love to change that and have people reach out to me when things are good…
How to Be an Advanced Listener
I figured I would give you a little time to read my last post “How to be a Great Listener” before I wrote this as a follow-up. Listening is so important in how you relate to your partner and so many people don’t do it. Are you listening on how to be an advanced listener?…
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