Live life as you want to live.

I have been absent for quite some time from this blog writing and it goes to the heart of this post because I have been focusing more on my family than my business. Not to say that I am not giving my all but my all is redirected at this moment. I have been telling my clients more and more lately that you need to live life the way you want it to be. What does that mean and why should you do it?
If you are having troubles at work, home or with the family, think about what and how you would be happy and once you find that out, others around you will be happier. If you are living to try to please others and not yourself than you will only end up regretting it and working on pleasing them. I am not telling you to be selfish, I am telling you to be self-full. What is the difference you ask? When you are self-full you work on doing good for yourself than others will benefit from it. When you are selfish, you are only thinking about yourself.
I have realized that my live is worth living the way I want it to be. That does not mean quitting my life and starting over. It means adding happiness to it and working on myself to live life to the fullest.
With that being said, how would you describe living life to the fullest?