Communication and Intimacy Quiz

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Communication and Intimacy Quiz

Have you and your partner forgotten how to talk to each other. Do you sit across from each other and nothing to say. Do you wish you felt more intimate with your partner? Are you wondering how you can reconnect and even if you can? If so, take this quiz to see if couple's counseling is right for you.

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Question 1: Do you still have date nights?

We only go out with other couples, never alone
We avoid being alone together
We try to get out at least once a week, but can only talk about trivial stuff such as the house and work
We go out together and we are able to talk to each other

Question 2: Do you and your partner share similar interests?

We used too share hobbies and interests but not anymore
We never shared similar interests and only connect when we are with our family
We spend time doing things together, but we do not connect when we do so
We are able to enjoy our time out together and reconnect during those times

Question 3: Do you and your partner know your inner world such as close friends and daily conversations?

My partner does not know my friends and I wish they did
I only share with my partner what I think they want to know about my friends
We only have couple friends and I do not have any friends outside of our relationship
I want us to work on being better parents together

Question 4: When you and your partner get to spend alone time together, you...

choose to go to a movie so you do not have to talk
share a massage together, but in separate rooms
do something together such as a cooking class or moonlight paddle boarding
I would rather just be by myself

Question 5: Do you find yourself more intimate with others outside of your relationship?

I have friends who I can share anything with
My friends understand me, but so does my partner
I only share information with my partner
I do not share information with anyone

Question 6: Do you find your partner enjoyable to communicate with?

Yes, we can talk for hours and hours
No, we can not talk about anything anymore, we fight all the time
We only talk about household stuff, nothing intimate
We used to be able to talk about anything, but that seems to be gone now

Question 7: Do you still fight?

Yes, that is all we do
I want to fight, but my partner does not want to talk to me anymore
We do not fight, we walk away
My partner wants to fight, but I am done fighting

Question 8: Has there been any emotional, financial or sexual cheating in your relationship?

Yes, there has been cheating, but it has been resolved
Yes, there was cheating and it is not resolved
No, there has not been any cheating
I am unsure if there has been any cheating

Question 9: Have you tried working on improving communication and intimacy before?

Yes, we have been in counseling before
I have read books to try to help us, but they did not work
We have been on a couple's retreat before
No, this is not something we have worked on before

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