{"id":226,"date":"2014-09-03T15:48:18","date_gmt":"2014-09-03T19:48:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.facetofacetherapy.com\/blog\/?p=226"},"modified":"2019-10-12T13:26:40","modified_gmt":"2019-10-12T17:26:40","slug":"family-plans-and-other-such-communication","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.facetofacetherapy.com\/blog\/2014\/09\/03\/family-plans-and-other-such-communication\/","title":{"rendered":"Family plans and other such communication!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have been thinking of family plans to add to my list of ever growing ways for couples to communicate. What do I mean by this you ask? I was envolved in a chat about a couple that had different ideas about their relationship. The woman wants to get married mostly for religious reasons and the man is not proposing after being together for 11 years. Okay, at some point you need to realize that you have different ideas on family\/relationships and figure out if there is a compromise in all of this. If so great, if not then you need to talk about separation.<\/p>\n<p>Another reason I have been thinking of this is for a very simple reason as the thing we call &#8220;our morning routine&#8221; or for better words are &#8220;not morning routine.&#8221; We both do what it us necessary in the am but what if we had a morning routine?<\/p>\n<p>So this idea of a family plan and relationship plan are to establish clear roles and diminish confusion and assumptions. I believe it is important to have 2 because if you lump them together something might get missed and the last thing I want is more confusion.<\/p>\n<p>To make things simple start small such as a morning routine and state what parent\/child is responsible for each thing. You can check back in a week from when you started it and either add, stay the same or revise!<\/p>\n<p>Relationships should be treated the same way, start small, both have imput and revise\/add often. Hopefully, this will lead to easier concrete<a href=\"http:\/\/www.facetofacetherapy.com\/blog\/tag\/communication\/\"> communication <\/a>to help each other understand each other point of view.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m working on my plans, let me know how yours go and if you already have one in place!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have been thinking of family plans to add to my list of ever growing ways for couples to communicate. What do I mean by this you ask? I was envolved in a chat about a couple that had different ideas about their relationship. 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