{"id":197,"date":"2014-07-17T09:12:31","date_gmt":"2014-07-17T13:12:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.facetofacetherapy.com\/blog\/?p=197"},"modified":"2019-11-01T10:01:42","modified_gmt":"2019-11-01T14:01:42","slug":"the-time-out-debate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.facetofacetherapy.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/17\/the-time-out-debate\/","title":{"rendered":"The time out debate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I hear parents talk about discipline all the time whether it&#8217;s the spanking debate or the time out debate. &nbsp;I am a big believer in time outs and I of course will tell you why!<\/p>\n<p>In my opinion time out is a way for a parent and a child to reset and start over. If you are like me, I put my child in time out only when she does something that bothers me. Hence when I am bothered by my child, I need a time out. As parents this great intervention was given to us to be able to take a break, take a deep breathe and be able to calmly parent again.<\/p>\n<p>Time outs need to be seen as an advantage to reset the behavior or mood and go along with your day. If you have a child who is not listening and it&#8217;s driving you crazy, then it&#8217;s time for you to reset and take a parent time out.<\/p>\n<p>As parents we all get frustrated even down right angry with our children which is normal and the right emotion to feel. &nbsp;How you handle that anger is what makes you a different parent than the next.<\/p>\n<p>Who agrees with me? Or better yet disagrees would love to hear how you deal with time outs<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I hear parents talk about discipline all the time whether it&#8217;s the spanking debate or the time out debate. &nbsp;I am a big believer in time outs and I of course will tell you why! 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